Wedding Rings –What do They Symbolize?

The origins of the custom of exchanging rings goes back so far in history, that no one knows for sure where or how the practice started. To be sure, the circle of the ring symbolizes both the continuity of the marriage relationship and the everlasting love of the couple for each other. The circle is a universal archetype of eternity, homecoming and completeness.

The seasons returning in a cyclical round and the returning nature of rituals that mark renewal in spring, harvest and abundance in autumn and the return of the wandering sun in winter are all part of this ring cycle of nature.

In rock art, and arrays marking sacred sites, in astrology and alchemy, the circle is symbolic of both the moon and the sun. These heavenly bodies are themselves symbols for the feminine and masculine qualities of the universe. Because of the symbolism of the sun linked with gold, and the moon linked with silver, couples sometimes choose a silver ring for one spouse and a gold ring for the other.

A deep magical connection exists to all kinds of rings – enchanted rings are prominent symbols in fairy tales from around the world. Spells for protection and magical incantations run through folk tales and modern fantasy films alike. In religious ceremonies, wedding rings are blessed by the one officiating to imbue the rings with power to protect the newly wedded couple.

Usually the couple will choose an embellishment for the plain metal band, a practice that goes back to Celtic and Greek times around 700 AD. One particular symbol is of interest – the serpent eating its own tail, known as the ouroborus, symbolizing death and rebirth in nature and hope for a marital union which will be constantly renewed.

Why are wedding rings worn on the third finger, left hand? The Romans believed a vein ran from this finger right to one’s heart. Another explanation holds that this finger is associated with the sun, so wearing a ring on that finger declares to the world that the marriage union is made in full daylight, and visible to everyone.